Staring at the chat box with no idea what to say? Here are 10-20 smart, copy-and-paste openers (and why they work) so you can stop overthinking and start getting real conversations going.
You finally match with someone you're genuinely excited about.
You open the chat box... and then your brain freezes.
Do you say "Hey"? Compliment her eyes? Make a joke? Ask a question? Before you decide, you've already talked yourself out of it and closed the app.
If that sounds familiar, you're not alone, especially if you're 30-50, busy, and maybe trying online dating for the first time in a while. Most guys in your age range don't struggle to talk to women; they struggle with what to type in those first few lines so they don't sound boring, creepy, or like every other guy.
The truth is, most men are sending the same generic stuff:
Women get dozens of those messages. So if your goal is a real connection,and eventually a date... you need something better than "Hey, how's your day?"
This article will show you:
By the end, you'll have a mini "playbook" for opening lines, so you're never stuck staring at an empty chat box again.